Friday, August 7, 2009

Thyme began in a garden


The LORD God took the man and put him in

the Garden of Eden to work it and take care of it.
Genesis 2:15


flowers in my garden



a sign in my corner of the world


a favorite book

From the author of the immensely popular The Princess and the Kiss and The Squire and the Scroll comes a lavishly illustrated story about love as it's celebrated in God's Word.

Petra announces to her friend Seth that she wants to grow her own flower garden. He agrees to help her by building a wall to protect the delicate flowers from harm. But it's not easy. Sometimes they don't get along, and the work is even harder than they imagined. Will they give up? Can their friendship last when disaster strikes the garden? In this engaging children's story, healthy friendship grows into committed love as Seth and Petra build their beautiful garden and the wall to protect it. Children learn about having healthy relationships based on 1 Corinthians 13. Recommended for ages 8 and up.

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Thursday, August 6, 2009

Summer Delights

sunflower in our backyard
(stare at the center...is that cool or what?! :)

farm & farmers market harvest

preparing peach/blueberry crisp

delicious!!

delightful dinner outdoors
(surprised my husband after a long day at work)



Menu

grilled steak & zucchini slices
fresh corn on the cob
tomato cucumber salad
lemonade
...& a walk around the neighborhood before enjoying
homemade peach/blueberry crisp

Days like today never seem to last long enough :)

She said "Yes"!

She is articulate. I try to be.
She's levelheaded. I'm more emotional.
She can sew & knit. I SO (k)not ? :)
She's older than me. I'm younger than her.
She's more serious. I'm more playful
(but I saw her boogie board w/ my own eyes the other day! ...wish I got a pic!!)

The point here is.... we're VERY different & yet she's a VERY dear friend.

Below is the letter (edited w/ some blanks)- unlike any other I've ever written - that I wrote & e-mailed to her back in 3/06 when I was reeling from having made the most difficult decision I've ever made in my entire life - & was left hoping I did the right thing but not certain of it. It all left me desperately wanting to know God better & to never not know what His will is in any situation ever again. Somehow I sensed she could - & just may - help. As you'll see, I gave her every opportunity to say "No."

Dear _________,

I've considered asking you a question for quite some time.... and occasionally had almost mustered up the courage, only to put it off until another time. I had actually picked up the phone to ask you today, but then was concerned that both a.) I would get all tongue tied, and b.) that you might feel "put on the spot". So....long story short, I decided to ask you this way....in hopes that it will give you some time to think it over, perhaps pray about it and reply without feeling too pressured.

I am wondering if by any chance you would consider mentoring/discipling me? As I have watched you from a distance, and gotten to know you better in the past several months, I have really come to admire you for so many reasons ---- some of which include your servants heart, your quiet yet confident faith, your beautiful family, your honesty, etc.

I have weathered some pretty intense "storms" in my life over the past couple of years that very few people are aware of - but one thing I've learned as a result, is that I have soooooo much to learn! I am at a point where I really want to get to know God better. I know in order to do that, I need to study His Word - but sometimes it seems that after reading, I am left with more questions than answers. I would just really like to have someone I know and trust to go to in confidence with those questions. I don't really want to do a "structured"/"pre-fabricated" Bible Study. What I do want to do is read the Bible from Genesis to Revelation (which I'm embarrassed to say, I have never done in it's entirety) and write down questions I have as I go to discuss. I also would just like someone I can discuss general "life" questions that come up periodically.

Please understand that I love and fear The Lord and simply want to get to know Him better. I grew up in a Christian home - My father passed away when I was 14 - and my mother was ill and in and out of the hospital fairly often after that. In many ways, roles were reversed in my relationship with my mother - in that I took care of both her and I - and she was more like the child. Looking back I can see that what I thought was pretty normal .... was really rather dysfunctional. I married and moved away at age 18 and have been happily married for almost 20 years. Our family has relocated on average about every 4-5 years - which has left me with very few solid relationships/friendships. While I keep in touch with many people, there are really none that I would trust with what I'm asking you to do for me --- and none of them are nearby anyhow.

Out of all the women I know and admire at _____________ Church, you are the one I believe I admire most - even though I realize I don't know you all that well. Anyhow - that is why I chose you to ask - and finally mustered up the courage to actually do it. However I don't want to pressure you in any way - and if your plate is simply too full - or if for any reason you don't feel up to it, please feel free to just say so. I know how awkward I feel asking....and would hate knowing that I made you feel just as awkward in replying. I really would understand if you said no.

_______

Now, if I can just muster up the courage to hit the "send" button...... :) Here goes :)....


Note: Praise God! She said "Yes"! :) - & we've faithfully been reading/studying God's Word together for over 3 yrs now & discussing it via e-mail which is ideal for me bc doing it "this way" allows me to write/journal thru' the process (taking my time to wrap words around my thoughts, things I wonder, things I'm learning, sensing, etc. before sharing them w/ her) - & in that process, I've been blessed in many ways ... with among them, a VERY dear friend.

Wednesday, August 5, 2009

A day on the farm


Today was a beautiful day to be out on the farm
pickin' blueberries & peaches.

a fork in the road

beautiful! bountiful! blueberries!

this one's a beauty!


juggling peaches

the hired help :)


now - what to do w/ our harvest?....
hmmm ....

a. pie
b. smoothies
c. homeade ice-cream
d. all of the above!

If you need wisdom....

Some people seem so confident in their decisions but I often question "Did I/ Will I make the "right" decision?" To give you an idea of how I wrestle at times, following are some quotes I underlined in one of my alltime favorite books/stories ... bc I could relate to some degree:

Just bc you can't make a decision until it's been wrestled to death, doesn't mean others can't & shouldn't.

Why did she always doubt herself halfway through a thing? It was her curse - one among many.

Doubt's a poison taken from a snake.

She wished she knew for certain, when bad things happened, whether it was part of God's guidance or just a consequence of one's own will.

Just yesterday I found myself trying to decide if I should take my daughter to the ER for a very painful ear infection or wait to get into the doctor's office that would open in a couple hours or so (given the horror stories, we might well have had to wait that long in the ER). You'd think after being a mom for 22 years, I'd have this stuff figured out & know what a real emergency is & isn't! Anyhow, I wrestled ... as usual - so it's more than coincidence that a friend forwarded this story to me via e-mail - that I just took the time to read yesterday - (my bold emphasis added on the Scripture bc that's what God really used to speak to my heart. Hmm ... Perhaps, in my case, I should read it -- everyday!:


The Inventor Of The Telegraph

If you need wisdom . . . ask him (James 1:5, NLT).

Dear Friends,

It occurred to me one day that God can do more in one second than man can do in a thousand years, or a million years.

Trying to accomplish things in our own strength and wisdom can be fruitless and time-wasting.

Many successful people have acknowledged in their memoirs that whenever they came to an impasse in their work and were completely baffled, they sought wisdom from the Lord.

Abraham Lincoln once told an intimate newspaper friend, Noah Brooks, "I have been driven many times upon my knees by the overwhelming conviction that I had nowhere else to go."

This was also true in the life of the famous inventor of the telegraph, Samuel F. B. Morse (1791-1872). In an interview, he was once asked, "Professor Morse, when you were making your experiments at the university, did you ever come to a standstill, not knowing what to do next?"

"I've never discussed this with anyone, so the public knows nothing about it. But now that you ask me, I'll tell you frankly -- I prayed for more light."

"And did God give you the wisdom and knowledge you needed?"

"Yes, He did," said Morse. "That's why I never felt I deserved the honors that came to me from America and Europe because of the invention associated with my name. I had made a valuable application of the use of electrical power, but it was all through God's help. It wasn't because I was superior to other scientists. When the Lord wanted to bestow this gift on mankind, He had to use someone. I'm just grateful He chose to reveal it to me."

In view of these facts, it's not surprising that the inventor's first message over the telegraph -- the very first transmitted message in history -- was: "What hath God wrought!"

Every time you face a perplexing problem, seek wisdom from above. And when the answer comes, always be sure to thank God and give Him all the glory.

"If you need wisdom -- if you want to know what God wants you to do -- ask him, and he will gladly tell you. He will not resent your asking. But when you ask him, be sure that you really expect him to answer, for a doubtful mind is as unsettled as a wave of the sea that is driven and tossed by the wind. People like that should not expect to receive anything from the Lord. They can't make up their minds. They waver back and forth in everything they do (James 1:5-8, NLT).


Yours for helping to fulfill the Great Commission each year until our Lord returns,

Bill Bright

Monday, August 3, 2009

art & organization

Art & organization (order!) are two things I've seen discussed so much on various blogs recently. With that in mind, I tho't to share this thought provoking video which I've posted (or one very similar) before - for your consideration & I'd love to read some of the thoughts it provokes if you're willing to share.





Edit/Note: I just noticed that comment at the end - & just wanted to clarify that it is not mine - not sure how it got there - & in fact I disagree with it.

Sunday, August 2, 2009

Winter - brrr! ugh! - or - ahhh...UGG!


Scattering Lupines asked me to write about how to dress for the cold weather - as she recently moved from FL to NC. I hafta chuckle bc it seems that when people from here move, they almost always head that direction (South!) to that general vicinity - to get to a warmer climate :) So - chances are my suggestions will be overkill :)

In a nutshell: Wool/Sheepskin (there's no substitute!)

Tip - Merino wool is softer & less scratchy than most.

The Reader's Digest Version:

Ugg Boots, Roffeflex long underwear, wool socks, an all season jacket w/ removable liner, waterproof shell, hood ... & dress in layers w/ thin, warm, soft/comfortable base layer - sometimes called silkies or cuddleduds.

A brief expository (ie. details!)

Buy good quality winter wear - don't settle for knock off look a likes. My UGG Boots (aka my dear foul weather friends!) cost about $70 at half price 8 yrs ago! - mb that's where they got their name...but if that were the case shouldn't they be called Ugh!! Boots ?! -- Anyhow, I wear them most every winter day. They were made in New Zealand w/ real sheepskin (I think they're made in China now (another good reason they should be called Ugh!!! boots) so I'm not sure UGG is the brand to buy anymore....but I think the real sheepskin & a nice flexible sole is the key to warmth & comfort. Bear Paws might be a good & less expensive alternative now.

My Roffeflex long underwear (I'm not sure if they make it anymore either)...one pair cost aprx $60 (Ugh!) - which is why I only have one pair. I live in them all winter. What I love about them is that they're basically soft fleece lined lycra (oddly enough they are not wool) so they are very form fitting & smooth on the outside - easy to get your jeans over...not bulky whatsoever. I have some other stretchy fleece & it's warm too but not quite the same fit.

I have a love/hate relationship w/ gloves & hats. They are so cute but hats give you hathead & gloves are so cumbersome/annoying but you gotta have 'em here. The kind I like best have open fingertips that you can cover or uncover like a mitten as needed (aka when those fine motor skills come in so handy! :)

On my wishlist still is a real down comforter (So expensive - Ugh!) - but electric blankets are one (yet another) reason I believe I was born for such a time as this :)

I grew up in sunny Arizona & have been transplanted a few times but this is by far the coldest place I have ever lived & I don't think my blood ever did whatever it was supposed to do to help me adjust. My nose is cold & I shiver ALL winter long - But these few things plus most anything flannel help make winter less ugh-ly!/more enjoyable - for me anyhow :)

Whew ... all this talk about warm & wool is makin' me hot! (couldn't possibly be a hot flash could it?!) ... hmmm - perhaps I'll have some extra help keepin' warm this winter :) Believe me, there are days midwinter in New England when I would welcome one :)