Friday, February 5, 2010

What's the real low down? (TROMS Pt 8)


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In the New Testament, it's a Greek word formed from two others - "Tapeinos" (low to the ground) and "Phren" (our hearts/minds). Put all of that together and humility means bowing our hearts to God.

The process:

Humble yourselves before the Lord and

The Promise:

He will lift you up. James 4:10

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Q. What's your heart saying in response?

A. My response here is more of a reaction - as I want to shout "Yes! DO IT! Now."

Tho' it is definitely the road less traveled, choosing to humble oneself is definitely the best way to go. The longer one puts it off, the more likely they are to BE humbled... & that's not a pleasant road to travel. For one thing, one doesn't move very fast when they're essentially one with the road because they've been brought practically parallel to it (aka real. low. down.)

You know you are "here" when the only way to look ... is up!

You know you've been there, done that when you submit to Him - to His way & to His will - & when He lifts you up, you don't feel quite like your old self anymore. For one thing (among perhaps many others), where there was pride, there is now ... humility.


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Pride goes before destruction, a haughty spirit before a fall.
Proverbs 16:18


When pride comes, then comes disgrace, but with humility comes wisdom.
Proverbs 11:2


Thursday, February 4, 2010

How do you compare? (TROMS Pt 7)


The Rest of Your Story 21- Day Challenge (continued)



Q. How do you compare (yourself to others)?

A. Alright...if I'm honest here & begin making "this list", it very well might never end & that is not what I want to focus on now - or (for)ever, so - let's move on...quickly please :)


Q. What is God doing in YOUR story right now?

A. The short answer here is:

He's teaching me that this journey is my own.

Sara Groves said it so well, but the only Youtube I could find of her singing it, is nothing special...so I encourage you to just close your eyes & listen - or read the lyrics below as she sings. If you're simply too rushed to do either just read what I've "bolded" (oh the lengths I go to keep it simple for ya! :) ... as that last line, quite effectively(!), sums it up:



When I stand before the Lord, I'll be standing alone. This journey is my own. Still I want man's advice, and I need man's approval, but this journey is my own. Chorus: Why would I want to live for man and pay the highest price? What would it mean to gain the world, only to lose my life? . So much of what I do is to make a good impression. This journey is my own. So much of what I say is to make myself look better. This journey is my own. . Chorus . I have never felt relief like I feel it right now. This journey is my own. 'Cause trying to please the world it was breaking me down, it was breaking me down. . Now I live and I breathe for an audience of one, now I live and I breath for an audience of one. Now I live and I breathe for an audience of one, 'cause I know this journey is my own. . Chorus. You can live for someone else, and it will only bring you pain. I can't even judge myself. Only the Lord can say, "Well done."



Wednesday, February 3, 2010

What on earth is a BLURB?

Well - now that I know the answer to that question, I'm wondering if perhaps I should just write a Children's blurb ... to start with anyhow. Strange tho' - as it almost seems too easy.... but it sure looks like fun!

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Perhaps I should "publish" some of my favorite posts in a "blog-blurb"

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Maybe - just maybe - when my children get married, I'll give each of them an Oh SO personal (!) cookblurb


Just click on each of the links above & have fun poking around to discover some of the other fun possibilities & potential that blurbs possess :) ... or just click here: blurb.com

What if your history hurts?/What bro't healing? (TROMS Pt 6)


For this assignment, Holley begins with this first question but skillfully encouarges us to shift our focus from the negative to the positive by answering the following one:


What if your history hurts?

One BIG "OUCH - that ReAlLy Hurt!" comes right to mind. I have only ever been willing to share about it on a need to know basis - (ex. I sense someone is going thru' what I went thru & needs to know that God tranformed my misery into ministry "for such a time as this"). This "wound" involved the need for me to forgive someone else in order for it to heal - which I can honestly say I have done - & I've moved on.

There are other situations in which I (numerous. daily. personal. choices.) caused pain (wounded!). Situations in which I wish I could go back & react &/or respond differently. I did share some of that here. This involved the need to forgive myself & accept God's forgiveness. As a result, I can attest to the fact (it's one of the very few things I know for sure!) that it's MUCH easier to forgive someone else than it is to forgive myself. Not sure why that is. It just is.

Q. What has helped bring healing to your history?

A. I must sound like a broken record here, but the answer to this question is the (VeRy) short summary of my story. The answer is essentially the same answer to a previous question, "What would you edit?" :

Hebrews 10(NIV): ....v4 because by one sacrifice he has made perfect forever those who are being made holy.

....He died to do what I was dying to do! He edited every bit(!) of my story that I would have loved to edit out myself if I could (& probably more!). I shudder to think of all the red (blood!) my story required in order to make me perfect forever! The transfusion was transforming - to the point that when I received it, I stopped dying & started really living (talk about healing!) .... & my story was no longer even about me anymore! It's all about Him now (even when I tend to forget that!) tho' it's still personal because it's shared from my unique vantage point.

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5Here is a trustworthy saying that deserves full acceptance: Christ Jesus came into the world to save sinners—of whom I am the worst. 16But for that very reason I was shown mercy so that in me, the worst of sinners, Christ Jesus might display his unlimited patience as an example for those who would believe on him and receive eternal life. 17Now to the King eternal, immortal, invisible, the only God, be honor and glory for ever and ever. Amen.

Tuesday, February 2, 2010

What are your goals? (TROMS Pt 5)

In this next assignment the 21 Day Challenge toward writing The Rest of Your Story, Holley encourages us to concentrate less on actual goals & more on the direction we want to head in, thereby allowing our story to be more about the journey & less about the destination. She suggests that moving forward "this way" also allows us remain more sensitive to God's leading.

Q. What are your goals?

A. To write a children's book

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To become a nurse

Yikes... I can't believe I put that out there! - but I guess that in itself is a step in the right direction(!) - as indeed, I am seriously considering this dream I've had since I was child - a dream which was inspired by the children's book above :)

How do you coast? (TROMS Pt 4)



Holley compares our story to a bikeride ... if you always ride in the same gear, it's exhausting. She contends that God designed us to have periods of rest to gain momentum ("coasting"), that He gave us different gears on purpose - & that the best example of "coasting" is the gift of a Sabbath.


Q. How Do you Coast?

A. I coast with my husband &/or my kids - but away from most other people - & definitely outdoors...kayaking, hiking, picnicking, biking. I find visiting new places to be especially inspiring/motivating. Most evenings my husband & I go for a walk to catch up & unwind. In particular we love (always have!) walking in the rain (especially warm summer rains) & snow (honestly, I think our neighbors think we're a bit crazy!). Fall leaves are fun to tromp thru' too & warm summer nights are a welcome reprieve after a long, cold winter.




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If/when I coast in solitude, oftentimes I write (blog!) whatever comes to mind.




Q. How about you? How do YOU coast?


Monday, February 1, 2010

What Are Your Meaningful Memories (TROMS-Pt3)

Stories are just a series of experiences. And memories are just stored experiences. And experiences are really all about our senses.

heart to heart with holley




The Rest of Your Story 21 Day Challenge Assignment: Pick a happy memory. Go thru' your five senses & write down one line for each, then ask yourself "Why is this experience important to my story?"
Here goes - tho' I couldn't quite seem to contain it to one line each so I finally quit trying :) ....

I see the morning sky above and a picturesque chasm - SO incredibly massive that it's all one can see virtually as far as they can see - and the bottom, if indeed that's what I see, just blends in w/ all rest. I'm standing where this chasm meets the sky.

I hear trees rustling in a gentle breeze.

I feel no fear - but something tells me that as I ran up to peer without fear over what appears to be a bottomless pit, my dad began to feel a bit uneasy! Soon, all my weight, and that of what's in my backpack, bears heavily on my knees as we begin our steep descent.

I taste cool, wet, sweet, refreshing water which I never quite seem to get enough of - but we're being careful to ration what we consume so we don't run out.

Finally - several hours later, we reach rock bottom of the Grand Canyon! We're spent. So tired. It's time to pitch camp - which shouldn't be too hard with the night sky as our tent and the bright moon as our nightlight.

I hear the rushing water of the Colorado River. I smell the earth as I stretch out on top of it to rest. Here, I feel a bit of fear ....that something creepy might crawl into my sleeping bag! But the God of all creation must sense that because He's spared no expense scattering what looks like diamonds(!) across the black velvet expanse above ... each and every one sparkling their brightest as if to compete for my undivided attention - thereby creating a splendid distraction.


What's the significance here?


As I wrote this, it dawned on me that this particular excerpt of my story caters to my sense of adventure and contains parallels (many I didn't touch on) to my life in general. Perhaps the two most poignant parallels "here" are:

This was perhaps the first time I remember working really hard to get where I wanted to go...& the reward ("diamonds") at the end likely would not have seemed nearly so rich if I'd not worked so hard for it.

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In much the same way that one feels they get to know an artist better by visiting an exhibit to closely examine their artwork, I tend to feel closest to God when I am experiencing & exploring His magnificent works - so beautifully displayed throughout creation - with all five senses He's given me to help me do just that.

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1 The heavens declare the glory of God;
the skies proclaim the work of his hands.

2 Day after day they pour forth speech;
night after night they display knowledge.

3 There is no speech or language
where their voice is not heard.

Psalm 19:1- 3